Someday you will get there. You have permission to rest. You are not responsible for fixing everything that is broken. You do not have to try and make everyone happy. For now, take time for you. It’s time to replenish. Yes you’ve tried almost your best and it’s not coming around the way you want it in that relationship. It’s true that when two people really care about each other, they will always find a way to make it work, no matter how hard it is. Sometimes you have to accept the truth and stop wasting your time on the wrong people. Always trust your first gut instinct. If you genuinely feel in your heart and soul that something is wrong, it usually is. For a woman there’s this thing called intuition, it’s inborn. A strong woman will automatically stop trying if she feels unwanted.. She won’t fix it or beg, she’ll just walk away.
Stop making excuses for the wrong people in your life and move on. Moving on doesn’t mean you forget about things, it just means you have to accept what happened and continue living. It’s ok to cry , I once did. It’s ok to try over and again, I too did. Some people come into your life just to teach you how to let go. Strong people are not people who don’t feel pain, they are those who accept the pain, dust up and move on. Accept what is, let go of what was and have faith in what will be. Sometimes you must cross a bridge and other times you need to burn it. But always keep building one and never loose faith in life.
Here’s an inspiration from Bob Gas, author of starting over, it goes; ‘’when you’ve been knocked down, you have the courage to stand up and the intelligence to plan your come back, know this; it’s not ok to come back and stay in the ring like before. you will get your brains knocked out again and you will still not win. But, when you come back, try again differently’’. Adjust your priorities, identify your loose ends and tighten up. This time you will win. Your career has not gotten to the stage you want it, don’t settle for less, take up that course and save that money by all means. It haven’t worked out yet but don’t bulk under pressure. ‘’when you’re trying to motivate yourself appreciate the fact that you’re even thinking about a change’’. And as you move forward, allow yourself to be good enough says Alice Dumur.. Keep applying for that job, use all your network of goodwill and you’ll get it. Don’t settle for a no- loving relationship. Another one is coming, made in heaven; confirmed by men.
It might not be tonight, tomorrow or the next day but everything is going to be okay. Always believe something wonderful is going to happen, even with all the ups and downs, never take a day for granted. Cherish the little things and hug your loved ones. Someday you will get there. To the place you’ve always wanted to be.